Archive for February 20th, 2008

February 20, 2008: 12:13 pm: adminMiscellaneous

The Missing Piece By Monty J. Sharp, Certified Comprehensive
Coach http://www.workteamcoaching.com

We’ve all heard the remarkable stories of people that achieved
remarkable things in their life, career or business. We’ve been
to the motivational seminars featuring dynamic, charismatic
speakers who whip us into an emotional frenzy and give us the
surefire secrets to success. We’ve bought the tapes, books and
videos with the steps to achieve our wildest dreams and goals.

Still, with this vast amount of wisdom at our fingertips, many
people will undoubtedly never accomplish their life goals.
Sadly, most will simply settle for much less than their dreams
in life.

What’s missing that sets those that accomplish much in life from
those that spend their life wondering, “What if…?” I’d like to
suggest what I think is the missing piece.

It’s not enough to set your sights high; you also need to
protect your goal. Like protecting someone you love - wife,
children, friends - you would never tolerate anything that would
do them harm. Quite the contrary, when you are protecting
something, you are all the more diligent to nurture and care for
it.

When I worked in the rehabilitation field, I often treated
people who had diabetes and had lost the ability to feel pain in
their feet. Because they no longer sensed the presence of their
feet, they often neglected to protect them from injury. The
consequences were often horrible - hideous ulcerations, lost
limbs and even sometimes death. What you do not feel, you will
poorly protect. What you do not protect, you could easily lose.

Success is the result of a certain mindset and of a set of
decisions rather than a set of random occurrences. The
successful are so deliberately. People who achieve success are
those who constantly “feel” and protect their goals. They will
not tolerate anything that could do harm to them. If you have a
goal, AND you won’t tolerate its not being achieved - you are
protecting the goal and you WILL create the structure to achieve
it.

********** A personal coach helps you hold and protect your
goal, maintaining the necessary focus to stay on track to
successfully achieving your goal. Coaches provide the structure
and accountability their clients need to keep the passion and
commitment alive and to consistently take the steps needed to
reach their goal. Visit http://www.workteamcoaching.com for more
information and to get your own personal coach.

: 12:09 pm: adminMiscellaneous

I finally found the love of my life. He has a teenage daughter and I have two kids under 11. We are currently cramped in a 2 bedroom trailer with a rambuncteous puppy that eats everything, an adult cat and a new kitten.

We are trying to buy a four bedroom house where everyone can have their space, and facing challenges with credit and down payments. The American Dream for every family to own their own house is definitely not as easy as I imagined. Life is rearing it’s ugly head and spitting reality at us and threatening our beautiful, fairy tale love.

I will not let anything get me down, no matter what it is. I know deep in my heart I love this man and his daughter with all my heart and will somehow make this new life work. After we conquer this home hurdle, then we will move forward to our wedding plans.

Weddings can be very expensive if you let them. It is only one day in your life and you only have one chance to make it perfect. Yet, perfect, in the marketing point of view is a wedding and reception starting at $1500. So, we settle for a small chapel wedding at a local church with a boring reception/luncheon with no champayne or merriment. The wedding only costs $300 then, and we can enjoy our $500 honeymoon in a nice hotel and a nice restaurant.

What price is love? Finding the right man for you, the right family life at any cost… priceless.

Caitlyn Carrington - EzineArticles Expert Author

Caitlyn Carrington resides in Texas. She has been writing since age 10. She was featured in “Who’s Who in International Poetry” and a member of the International Poetry Society. Her poems and stories are acclaimed on http://www.poetry.com and http://www.writing.com. She writes freelance and enjoys proofreading, ghostwriting and is currently finishing her last chapters of her novel “The Celtic Soul”…an Arthurian Historical Romance.

: 12:03 pm: adminMiscellaneous

Success or Bust!

We’ve all been driving down the road and seen those infamous signs in the back of all types of automobiles that say something like “Disneyland or Bust”. What does this mean? Basically, it means that those people are on their way to Disneyland and they will do absolutely anything no matter how much money, time or gas that they waste. They will get to Disneyland or BUST (go broke, run out of gas, waste too much time) trying to get there.

Now, let me ask you a question. Are you wearing this sign on your back as you head down the road to financial freedom?

SUCCESS OR BUST!

No, I don’t mean a real sign but you are doing everything possible to become successful no matter how much money, time or relationships it cost you. If this is you, then here’s a suggestion…stop the madness! Your success journey should progressively improve as you head down the path. Let me give you an example.

One of my coaching clients had been building her business for five years without any financial gain. That’s right, absolutely no progress. After just a few coaching sessions, she realized that she had been building her business wrong for five years. The minute that she began implementing strategies and techniques that actually work her business went through the roof. She’s now on her success journey and she is paving her way with golden bricks. This lady refuses to wear that sign that most of you are wearing…Success or Bust!

So, how do you know if you have that sign on your back? Here are some clues:

You are flipping through a phone book or buying names/numbers instead of getting out and networking with people. You can’t expect to build an outstanding team if you don’t put forth the effort to actually meet Champions like yourself. Yes, it is hard to build a mastermind team that’s why I have compiled a Champions Forum where you can meet other Champions. Check out www.FindYourWhy.com/club to start building your team!

You are taking advice from a coach, mentor, upline, business partner, etc. that has never done what you want to do or has never gone where you want to go. For example, if you are building a direct sales/marketing business then you wouldn’t want to take advice or direction from someone that has never built a direct sales/marketing business or has never made millions in the industry.

You have spent hundreds if not thousands on personal development materials or services but you have nothing to show for it. You must research before you invest. For instance, I have had great success with my Millionaire Maker Boot Camps but I would never expect for you to take my word for it so I developed www.FindYourWhy.com/bootcamp. You can actually go to that link and listen to audio testimonials from past boot camp attendees. If you can’t find real testimonials from real people that a personal development program or service works, then don’t invest in it!

If you relate to any of these examples, then here’s what I want you to do. Are you ready?
Take your hand, put it in the center of your back and rip that “Success or Bust” sign off of your back! You shouldn’t become physical, emotionally, socially or financially broke on your Success Journey. I challenge you to start paving your path with golden bricks today by networking with other champions, taking advice from a successful coach and investing in personal development materials that work.

Creating 1,000 Millionaires,
John Di Lemme

www.FindYourWhy.com

John Di Lemme, a Former Clinically Diagnosed Stutterer, now the
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in your life today and achieve all your goals, dreams and desires.

: 11:21 am: adminThe Technology Way

PEAR is short for “PHP Extension and Application Repository”.
It is a standard and structured library of open-sourced code for PHP users, All PHP code is written in standard style
known as PCS ( PEAR Coding Standards ),it helps in maintaining the collaboration between PEAR developers. It is also helpful in quality and portability management. Using PCS, PEAR contributors can provide consistent and similar coding standard packages.

PEAR is a community-driven project. The project has been founded by Stig S. Bakken in 1999 and quite a lot of people have joined the project since then.

The code in PEAR is partitioned in “packages”. Each package is a separate project with its own development team, version number, release cycle, documentation and a defined relation to other packages (including dependencies). Packages are distributed as gzipped tar files with a description file inside, and can be installed on your local system using the PEAR installer.

Nowadays it is included in the standard distribution of the PHP installation and default include_path of php.ini in set to include the files from the folder where php pear packages normally installed.

But why PEAR is so useful? PEAR has more than 330 packages ranging from HTTP authentication to XML web services and complicated math equations for engineering calculations.
Database management can be done using DB packages, and mail can be handled using mail packages.There are packages to create the forms and do their validation automatically. You can also create and validate the CSS and HTML of your code.

There are more than 25 packages categories like Authentication, Benchmarking, Caching,Configuration, Console, Database, Date and Time, Encryption, Event, File Formats, File System, Gtk Components, HTML,HTTP, Images, Internationalization, Logging, Mail, Math, Networking,Numbers, Payment, Processing, Science,Semantic Web, Streams, Structures, System, Text, Validate, Web Services, XML.

Using pear, a less experience person can handle the any major technical requirement in their PHP programs.

But PEAR has one major issue with its documentation. Its documentation is not up to the mark and is probably the weakest part of the project. Most modules have some documentation available in the PEAR Manual but much of this is incomplete and crucially there are no links from the package directory entries to the documentation for each package. It’s a major short coming because PEAR has a great deal of excellent code that many developers are completely unaware of. The documentation normally created by PHP Documentator.

Some web sites like http://www.zend.com/pear/tutorials/index.php and http://www.phpkitchen.com/index.php?/archives/668-PEAR-Tutorials.html has some good collection of PEAR tutorials.

You can visit the PEAR homepage at http://pear.php.net

About the Author

Zareef Ahmed is php developer based in india, Delhi. He is doing web development since last five-six years.
He can be contacted at zareef@zareef.net. To know more about him you can visit his home page at http://www.zareef.net

: 10:53 am: adminThe Technology Way

The applications of the Internet continue to expand every day. Big businesses and small businesses, home businesses and other types are beginning to become dependent on their web connections in order to stay afloat and profitable in the competitive world. One glitch in the system in the form of a computer viruses can end up costing any type of business incredible amounts of money in downtime, repairs, and lost opportunities.

As individuals also begin to use the Internet more and more, personal computers are also increasingly prone to attacks from ever-changing viruses and attacks. These viruses are often developed solely with malevolence in mind, with no direct threat intended to the individual impacted by the virus. On the other hand, some viruses are intended to crash a system or to gather information about a specific person. It is essential that you keep your computer safe from attack by these viruses.

The first rule of defense in keeping out harmful computer viruses is to avoid opening attachments from unfamiliar e-mail addresses. This is the most common way that a virus developing miscreant will lull the unsuspecting into downloading a computer-crashing program onto their personal system. These viruses seem able to get into any e-mail server and you must avoid opening the attachment, tempting as it may sound. It is unlikely that anyone has sent you a chance to win a million by finding out your e-mail, so remember that some of the rules of real life apply to cyber space as well: if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

The second major step is to obtain some kind of anti-virus software. These programs are available everywhere, and can be obtained for free through reputable companies like Microsoft or McAfee. All of the computer techs I have ever talked to say that the AVG system available for free is just as good as any other software out there when it comes to virus detection and removal. Another good program is the Norton Anti-Virus. Any software you choose should have a tool which allows you to scan your computer in general, specific programs in particular, and any suspicious documents. It should also allow you to isolate, contain, and remove any viruses found in the scanning.

Scan your entire computer with your software every couple of days, especially if you are a heavy Internet user. New viruses with more cleverly hidden infiltration abilities are appearing every day, and it is imperative to know if you have been affected. Similarly, most anti-virus software will have updates available constantly, and you must take the time to update your program.

Finally, with the amount of software available for other people to damage your computer, you need to be aware when things begin to run in a way they just shouldn’t. When your computer shuts off for no reason, is very slow in responding, or experiences other hiccups, it is time to take it in to the pros to get it checked out. Doing so will not only remove any undetected viruses (and even with the best software, there still are some that slip through the cracks), it will also stop the spread to any other people you may contact.

Willie Reynolds is a computer professional who runs a site dedicated to improving computer performance.

: 9:15 am: adminThe Technology Way

Introduction

This article is for members who want learn how to properly eat a woman’s vagina, or who’ve heard that it might not be all that bad to put their face down there, and for women who want to get their man to eat them period, improvement in performance can come later.

We are not experts. Simply women who knows what we like, and has had all too many experiences with men who didn’t seem to have the vaguest idea what they were doing between her legs.Straight or Lesbian, eating pussy an art.

Eating a woman’s vagina is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her cum like crazy. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it’s the easiest way to cum with a man. You may have the littlest cock on the planet, but if you give great head, you’ll be appreciated as a fabulous lover. Yes, it’s that important. Besides, lots of women expect it these days so you might as well get to know what you’re doing. Studies show that 90 percent of married couples under 25 give head and for couples over 50, at least 55 percent of the men are eating vagina, with 95 percent of the men and 82 percent of the women enjoying it.

Many guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women’s genitalia. Guys that can’t wait to get their cock into one are often reluctant to put their face “down there.” For every guy who says he loves to eat vagina, there’s another one who’s squeamish. Women know this, and it affects their ability to lie back and enjoy the experience.

This is for you gals. Before you can get him to eat vagina for the first time, you need to get him worked up about the idea, that is, get him to think about sex for a few minutes, but don’t do anything to make him cum yet. He’s got a sex switch in his brain that turns on when he sees a woman, especially a naked one, and turns off as soon as he cums, this is why who does what first can be very important in the beginning, less so as the two of you mature. Fortunately, it won’t take much to get him to eat you the first time, just undress and ask him to, let him look at your vagina for a while, show him your clit and let him play with it, promise him a good fuck afterwards or a blowjob if you’ve read the second section, if he seems the least bit interested straddle his head and rub your bush over his face.

What’s Down There?

This is for you guys. Most men don’t really know what they’ve been sticking their cock into. Many women also don’t appreciate what they have, and can’t understand why a man would think that it was beautiful, let alone want to put his face in it.

Why would a man like to eat vagina? Most men I know who really love women and want make having sex with them a joint endeavor rather than a conquest, also like to eat vagina. They don’t want to just eat her, they want to bring her to a great climax and then build her up for a fuck that neither will forget, or maybe get a good blowjob if that’s what she wants to do. I think that there are two basic reasons. First, many men want to give their woman the most sexual satisfaction they can, they enjoy pleasing her and will go to great lengths to do so, the more their woman likes what they are doing to her, the harder their cocks get until sometimes they cum just from eating her. The second is the role that the mouth, tongue, taste and smell play in sex. Why do people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction that takes place during a kiss. The mouth, lips and tongue are some of the more erogenous zones of the body and are active rather than passive, you do something with them. You nibble on her ears, kiss and suck on her nipples, kiss her navel, why not kiss and suck on the most sexual part of her body, her vagina. The tastes and odors of the fresh secretions from a clean healthy woman’s vagina are also erotic to many men. Put this all together and your mouth in her vagina is where it’s at guys.

Now that you’ve got your woman out of the shower, on the bed, and fairly well warmed up (or she’s got you there), stop and look at what you see. Leave the lights on, or get a flashlight or something, so that you can examine her carefully. Take a good look at what’s between her legs. Beautiful, isn’t it? There’s nothing that makes a woman more unique than her vagina. I know. I’ve seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl’s cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz.

The first thing you see is her muff. It should be the same color as the rest of her hair but who knows these days. It has a slightly different texture than the hair on her head and can cover a large or small area but usually just up over the mons area, that fleshy mound over her pelvic bone, and down each side of her vagina to its lower end. It usually does not spread out to her thighs and has sparse growth partially onto the outer lips.

Don’t worry, looking at it won’t make you go blind. Nestled in the midst of her muff are the outer, or major, lips of her vagina (they are vertical on all women). They are not overly sensitive to touch on the outside (but it’s a good place to start), about the same as the shaft of your cock. They extend from the upper part of the hood that covers her clit to more or less the bottom of her vagina. They’re thick and luscious in the middle and thin out at each end blending into her body. Some are almost closed while others are open to varying extents, allowing the inner pleasures to peep through. They don’t generally come together completely at the top, exposing the upper cone of the clitoral hood, and less so at the bottom, giving you a glimpse of the bottom of the vaginal entrance where the lower parts of the inner lips surround it.

Underneath the outer lips are the inner, or minor, lips. These are much thinner, more sensitive and fun to play with. At the top they form the cone-shaped hood that protects the sensitive clit, closing in under the clit and then coming back out to continue down to the bottom of the vaginal entrance. They tend to blossom out between the outer lips, especially near the bottom.

Between the underside of the clit and the bottom of the vaginal opening lies the vestibule, your new playground. Although the clit’s hood is a part of the inner lips, they appear to only cover the vestibule. The urethra and vagina open into the vestibule. Excluding the obvious first place role of the clit, it’s the vestibule and the entrance to the vagina where a lot of the action takes place.

I’ve saved the best for last, the clitoris or clit, accent on the first syllable. Most of you know it, but for those who don’t, it’s THE woman’s sex organ, period. It may feel great to be fucked vaginally or otherwise, but if the stimulation isn’t right there, on the clit, you’re ignoring the place that’s going to make her cum, and presumably that’s why you’re reading this, right? It’s right there at the top juncture of her inner lips, a small knob of pink flesh. This is where it’s at boys, and don’t forget it. Almost any licking and sucking of the labia or vaginal entrance are going to feel just dandy; just remember that’s pleasurable, teasing, not the main event. I can’t tell you how many guys have thrust their tongues up my cunt thinking that that was going to make me cum. They were wrong. Of course, with a little manual stimulation . . . but I’m getting ahead of myself.

Women feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can take on their clit. Some women will adore it if you suck hard on their exposed clits, others will shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you’ll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia. IMPORTANT NOTE: Often, what is unacceptably rough at first, may be fine after she’s very excited. The fact is, most women really need a good bit of stimulation before a targeted attack on their clit, but once they’re ready, that’s where you want to devote your attention.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Serena & Amy are 2 active members of dDawg. Passionate about sexual health and fitness.
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