Many of us love to read. Some of us who love to read the most
are introverts, so I went to the source to find out what it’s
all about.
There’s a great readers’ survey on TheIntrovertzCoach (
http://www.theintrovertzcoach.com/booksurvey.html ) and yes,
Easy Reader that I am, I participated. You’re invited to, too!
Here are two things that seem to be true of people who have
developed a love of reading:
·They were taught to read before they went to school, often by a
parent ·Most couldn’t even count the number of books they’ve
read in a lifetime. One reader wrote, “Almost as many drinks of
water as I’ve taken. Can’t begin to guess.” Hundreds and
thousands seem to be the norm.
When a parent or loved one teaches you to read, it’s associated
with a loving atmosphere.
Many people who love to read tell me that being read to was a
regular part of their life as a child.
My father read to me and my sister every night, without fail.
The books he chose even my mother had to object to at times –
“Black Arrow,” and “The Three Musketeers,” for instance, but it
really didn’t matter to me. I loved hearing my father’s voice,
and I picked up his obvious love of literature. He approached
each reading session with enthusiasm, more in the nonverbals
than in anything he said, but certainly I could tell it was
something he really looked forward to.
He would pick up the clearly-beloved book, and settle back in
the chair, sigh and assume a posture of – ahhh, at last. What a
wonderful way to transmit a love of learning.
When I was ready to go to college, and was kind of dubious, he
told me I’d like it a lot more than high school. He said “The
kids are nicer, and the level of learning is much more
enjoyable. You won’t have to memorize much.”
Those pat phrases – “reading broadens you” and “learning
enriches your life,” were lived in my household. Yes, my father
worked. Yes, he did things around the house. Yes, when he
settled in to read us a book at night it seemed the part of the
day he most looked forward to.
Lifelong learning appears to be one of the qualities that builds
our Resilience. Research by Al Siebert, Ph.D., has found that
people who live longer, healthier, happier lives have
incorporated learning in every stage of their life instead of
abandoning “learning” after college.
One reason I love reading is that it’s always available. When
you’re stuck in a traffic jam, or waiting for a late-running
soccer practice to end, or getting a prescription filled at the
pharmacy, or stuck at work with nothing to do, you can always
get on the internet and read, or pull out a book.
Reading and learning are available under most conditions. There
were years (before the Internet) when I couldn’t afford books
and I would go to the public library. There were also used book
fairs, and now there are used book stores.
There’s also the used book option at amazon.com, as well as the
plethora of free learning material on the Internet. You don’t
have to spend a cent, and you don’t have to leave your house.
Some questions for you about books:
1.Do books uplift the spirit and allow a pleasant distraction?
“When I am attacked by gloomy thoughts, nothing helps me so much
as running to my books. They quickly absorb me and banish the
clouds from my mind.” ~Michel de Montaigne
2.No matter what your stage or age, is there a book out there
for you?
”Books … are like lobster shells. We surround ourselves with
‘em, then we grow out of ‘em and leave ‘em behind, as evidence
of our earlier stages of development.” ~Dorothy L. Sayers
3. Are books wonderfully user-friendly?
“Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are
the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most
patient of teachers. ~ Charles W. Eliot
4. If you’re living without books, are you missing out on
something?
”I cannot live without books.” ~ Thomas Jefferson
5.Do you value books more than other material possessions?
”Knowing I lov’d my books, he furnish’d me From mine own library
with volumes that I prize above my dukedome.” ~Shakespeare
6.Does reading books bring refinement?
”You despise books; you whose loves are absorbed in the vanities
of ambition, the pursuit of pleasure or indolence; but remember
that all the known world, excepting only savage nations, is
governed by books. ~ Voltaire
7.Are those who don’t study history forced to repeat it?
”Without words, without writing and without books there would be
no history, there could be no concept of humanity. ~Herman Hesse
8.Do books expose you to good people you might not otherwise
meet?
”The reading of all good books is indeed like a conversation
with the noblest of men of past centuries who were the authors
of them, nay a carefully studied conversation, in which they
reveal to us none but the best of their thoughts.” ~ Rene
Descartes
9.Are books a part of the Information Age?
“The rules have changed. True power is held by the person who
possesses the largest bookshelf, not gun cabinet or wallet.”
~Anthony J. D’Angelo
10.Do books broaden your horizons?
”It is books that are a key to the wide world; if you can’t do
anything else, read all that you can.” ~Jane Hamilton
Here’s to the joys of reading, to hyacinths for the soul!