Archive for August 28th, 2007

August 28, 2007: 11:32 pm: adminUniversity of Security

Our homes are usually the most expensive single item we ever buy. Not only do they represent a significant financial investment, but our home is a big emotional investment. They are the places where we raise our families and celebrate our lives. Our homes are our refuge from a busy world - a safe place where we live, love and grow together. Yet in the U.S. alone there are more than 500,000 residential fires every year that are serious enough to require a call to the fire department. Worse yet, every year more than 4,000 Americans die in home fires and approximately 20,000 are injured. Tragic statistics indeed, but equally tragic is that the vast majority of these fires and related injuries and deaths are preventable.

Top Ten Tips for Fire Safety

1. Install Smoke Alarms
The single most important purchase you can make for your home is smoke alarms. Working smoke alarms can double your chances of surviving a fire. Most deaths that occur in home fires aren’t from fire, but from smoke. Homes should have at least one one smoke alarm on every level. To make certain smoke alarms are fully functional they should be tested monthly, kept free of dust and have the batteries replaced annually. The smoke alarm itself should be replaced every ten years, or as recommended by the manufacturer.

2. Plan an Escape Route
If a fire does break out, you must get out fast. Being awakened by a smoke alarm at 2:00 a.m. is not the time to have to think through how to get you and your family to safety. You must plan ahead by sitting down with your family and go over an escape plan that includes at least two exits from every room. If you live in an apartment building, your escape plan must not include elevators. Finally, when you develop your escape plan decide on a safe meeting place outdoors where everyone meets after the escape. Your household should practice the escape plan two times a year.

3. Beware of Smoking
The leading cause of fire deaths is careless smoking. Avoid smoking in bed and take great care to make large ashtrays readily available to smokers throughout your household. Cigarettes can smolder under and around upholstered furniture unnoticed only to ignite into a full blaze minutes later.

4. Take Care Cooking
Never leave your cooking unattended. Furthermore, be aware of flammable materials like curtains, dish towels or loose fitting clothing around cooking areas. To avoid accidental spills of hot oil or boiling water be sure the handles of pots and pans are turned inward on the stove so they can’t be bumped or grabbed by children. Should cooking oil in a pan catch fire cover the pan immediately with a lid. Under no circumstances should you pour water on a grease fire. This will cause the fire to spatter and spread.

5. Space for Space Heaters
Whether electric, kerosene or some other fuel space heaters need space. They should be kept at least three feet away from anything that can burn. Always keep children and pets away from heaters and never leave them unattended when you leave home.

6. Matches, Lighters and Children Don’t Mix
Children are often fascinated by fire. Teach your children that matches and lighters are tools, not toys, should never be played with and are to be used only by adults. Store all matches and lighters where children can neither see them nor reach them. Because children are naturally curious, don’t hesitate to check under your children’s bed, in closets and other places where they may hide matches or lighters in their rooms.

7. Use Electricity Carefully
Promptly replace cracked or frayed cords on appliances. If an appliance sparks, smells or smokes unplug it immediately and have it repaired or replaces. An all too common cause of electrical fires is the improper use of extension cords. Never run extension cords under rugs and never use an extension cord to overload a circuit. Only a trained professional should service circuit breaker or fuse boxes. If a fuse must be replaced, use only the proper sized fuse for that circuit.

8. Stay Low Under Smoke
If you must escape a fire, stay close to the floor. Smoke and toxic gasses rise, and the air near the floor is cleaner.

9. Stop, Drop and Roll
If your clothing catches fire, DO NOT RUN! Running feeds more air to the flames and will cause them to spread more rapidly. Instead, stop where you are, drop to the floor or ground, cover your face with your hands and roll around until the flames are covered. Should you encounter a person whose clothing is on fire, cover them with a blanket, rug or coat and roll them on the ground.

10. Treating a Burn
The best quick treatment for minor burns is to run cool water over the burn for 10 to 15 minutes. This will cool the burn. Never use ice on a burn. Using ice on a burn may damage the skin or even cause mild frostbite. And contrary to what your grandmother may have told you, don’t apply butter or any grease to a burn. It will prevent air from reaching the burn. If skin is burned severely enough to cause blisters or charring, seek medical attention immediately. Severe burns can easily become infected.

Preventing fires and fire related injuries and death isn’t a matter of luck. It takes planning. Every household should have a plan that includes a home safety checklist, smoke detectors, escape plan and regular safety audit. Make protecting your family, household and valuables from fire a priority. Your life may depend on it.

Clarey’s Industrial Fire Safety Equipment Inc. provides information and equipment that increases workplace, industrial, and home fire safety. For more information visit www.clareys.com

: 10:25 pm: adminUniversity of Security

Home invasion formerly known as burglary is the type of crime that you can do something to prevent. Home invasion falls into two categories burglary and robbery. In my book “Crime Awareness 101″ I discuss the differences of both and what you can do. In this article I am going to address preventative steps to protect your home from being unlawfully entered. What is home invasion? Home invasion is where someone enters a dwelling with the intent to commit a felony, larceny (theft), or assault. In most cases these criminals look for easy opportunities or in other words look for the path of least resistance. In fact it is stated that statistically a home invasion criminal will not at the most spend more then two minutes attempting to break into a home. By understanding this, your best defense is to create a path of great resistance. Here some suggestions to securing your home.

Install deadbolt locks. The downside of deadbolt locks is that the deadbolt goes into the wood jam which makes up the doorway. Because most doorway jams are only about three quarters of an inch think, and the fact that the deadbolt is not long enough to penetrate into the stud. A good kick or two and that door is going to fly open splitting the door jam. During my time as a Police Officer I had to kick open a few doors and it’s not all that hard to do. The alternative is to get steel jams. The steel jams will not splinter like wood thus making it very difficult to kick in the door. I have also had my experiences attempting to kick in a steel jammed door, in which I was unsuccessful. We usually had to use a battering ram, or have the Fire Department come and pry the door open. This took some time and caused a lot of commotion something a criminal is not going to waste their time doing. Unfortunately installing steel jams on all your exterior doors is a costly proposition. However in researching this article I came across a company that does have an excellent alternative. What they provide is a steel plate called “Strike Master II” it’s about five feet long and easily installs on the door jam. It is installed on the side of the door jam that the doorknob and deadbolt secure to. By installing their product you in a sense have just created a steel jam but without any of the high cost, or extensive labor. For more information about all their products you can go here http://www.asafehome.net

Patio doors are another entry way that needs to be secured. Many people do not realize that some patio doors can be lifted up slightly and disengage from their locking mechanism. This is especially true for door walls that are a few years old and the jams have expanded. An easy and cheap way to secure a patio door is to put a pole in between the patio door end and the wall. Place the pole on the track where the patio door slides when opening up. This will prevent the door wall from being opened until the pole is removed. You can use an old broom stick handle or even a board. You want to cut it to the same length as the open track area when the door wall is closed. To keep the door from being lifted up and removed you can install a flat headed metal screw into the top of the patio door frame one should be about six inches from the edge and one in the middle. Make sure the screw is just above the door so that it will not interfere with the door sliding open or close. You can also purchase products which have been specially designed for patio door security such as patio door security bars, patio door pins, and patio door locks, etc… You can find these items at your local hardware store. The same thing goes for your windows make sure they are locked and secured the same way.

Note: be careful when you are installing anything which requires you to drill into your patio door frame you could result in damaging the door, or breaking the glass. If you are not that handy I would recommend you hire a contractor to do the work for you.

Lighting is an excellent deterrent to criminal activity at night. I recommend if possible installing outside lighting on motion detectors. That way the lights will go on when motion is detected. Many times they will detect small animals or some other thing and go on. Just because they go on doesn’t necessarily mean there is someone there. But having them go on is a good deterrent if someone was. Like stated above thieves don’t want to make a scene, and they surely do not want a light shining on them. If possible, it is suggested that you install flood lights on each of the four corners of you home. That way you could have perimeter lighting with motion detectors watching all sides of your home. When purchasing a motion detector spend the extra few dollars and get one of good quality.

Home alarm systems are also becoming popular and are a good deterrent. If you get just an audible alarm that will help, but I recommend that if you are getting an alarm system, get one that has a service that monitors your home and will contact the proper authorities when the alarm goes off. If someone does enter your home you want the police to be notified as quickly as possible. Also make sure your alarm company knows which police department to contact for your jurisdiction. We had numerous calls for police service from alarm companies whose customer’s residence was outside of our jurisdiction, this caused unnecessary delays in police response. If you do get an alarm make sure to put the notification stickers on the doors that state “This home is protected by…” A would be criminal might see those stickers and look for a house that isn’t alarmed.

When going on vacation I recommend you have a friend of family member (someone trustworthy) to stay in your home while you are gone. If that is not possible have a neighbor, friend, or family member keep an eye on your home and come by daily to take in the mail and any newspapers you have delivered. They should also do a daily walk around the house and check to make sure all windows and doors are secure. We have had people go away for a couple weeks only to come back and find there home broken into. Later it was determined that their home was broken into only a couple days after they left. The rest of the time it sat wide open to the elements of weather, and possibly another thief.

If you do not have anyone available to check your home, and take in your mail, you can have your mail held for you at the post office. You can do this online at http://dunsapp.usps.gov/HoldMail.jsp.

Remember the more difficult you make it to get into your home the less likely you are of being a Home Invasion victim.

For more information about my book or to read more of my crime prevention articles click the following link Crime Prevention Information

Scott Shaper is a former police officer of over 14 years. He is also the author of the popular book Crime Awareness 101. He has written numerous articles and ebooks on crime prevention. For more information on his book or to read more of his crime prevention articles click the following link Crime Prevention Information

: 6:14 pm: adminLiving With Software

So let’s begin crunching down these 300 images using Adobe Photoshop from start to finish. When I say ‘crunching’, to some 300 images may seem like allot, but it’s not. I have done jobs for clients that have 100,000 plus images. When you have that many images to produce there are other programs I use that are designed for this. We’ll cover that another day.

To this point we have ensured that our images are web ready, cropping, retouching, watermarking, etc. So let’s get at it. I will assume that we are all using Adobe Photoshop version 6 or greater.

First we will go to the ‘file’ menu and select ‘Automate” shown here http://weprintcolors.com/screens/screen_dw_create_photo_menu.htm. Now you are ready to create the theme of your photo album by filling in the required textfields. Remember to be as brief and descriptive as possible, as this information gets published on all html pages generated by Photoshop. This is where Photoshop is seems to offer more that Dreamweaver. You will notice the first pull down menu ‘styles’. There are many different horizontal and vertical styles available. The second menu allows you to enter an email address that you may want to be available to your visitors. However, I advise against it. Remember that thing called SPAM. Then next pull down menu allows you to specify .htm or .html extensions. Now we’ll click the ‘browse’ button and locate your image source folder. Click the ‘destination’ folder. This folder should be located somewhere in you website folder. If you don’t have one, make one. ‘Options’ is, again an area that Adobe seems far more thorough that Dreamweaver. The ‘options’ menu let’s you specify every aspect of your photo album…size of small thumbnails, size of large thumbnails, add custom colors to better tie into your corporate scheme. Remember to complete the ‘site name’, ‘photographer’, textfields tactfully; this is what tells the search engine what your subject matter deals with.

Are you ready now? Go ahead click OK. Like magic your photo album manufacturing itself. This is a great tool that can be used commercially or just for fun. Create commercial product pages for your clients or create an online photo album for family and friends in minutes.

Robert is the marketing director of an online print and design firm http://www.weprintcolor.com. Robert covers all aspects of graphic development and digital media designs.

: 5:29 pm: adminThe Technology Way

Superultramodern Science (SS) is supposed to be above/beyond/next to ultramodern science, the extremely modern science of today. SS is a creation of Dr Kedar Joshi (myself) and consists of 9 components. All of the 9 components are invented by the creator of SS.

1. Superultramodern Scientism ( SSism )

2. The NSTP ( Non - Spatial Thinking Process ) Theory : Non - Spatial Universal Mechanics (NSUM)

3. RGM ( Resolution of Great Mysteries )

4. The FMUP ( Flawed Modern / Ultramodern Physics ) Theory : Superultramodern Physics (SP)

5. ROS ( Rehabilitation of Occult Sciences ) : Astrology, Numerology, Telepathy (ANT).

6. Conmathematics ( Conceptual Mathematics ) : Superultramodern Mathematics (SM)

7. The FR ( Flawed Reason ) Theory

8. Superultramodern Universal Communism (SUC)

9. Superultramodern Ethical / Aesthetical Relativism (SEAR)

Most of the mysteries ( or problems ) in modern / ultramodern science are resolved in Superultramodern Science. In some sense SS seems to be the culmination of human intellectual progress as the problems in SS demand superhuman intelligence to be solved.

About the Author

Dr Kedar Joshi, BSc MA DSc DA, PBSSI, MRI
Cambridge, UK.

Father of Superultramodern Science (FSS)

The Founder as well as the President of
British Superultramodern Scientific Institution (BSSI)

The mission of BSSI is to advance Superultramodern Science.

kedarkj1@rediffmail.com

http://superultramodern.blogspot.com

: 2:22 pm: adminMiscellaneous

Jewelry is said to be the most exciting and enthralling gift a women can ever get. Majority of the women population wear different and unique type of jewelry just to add an extra oomph to their personality. It has been seen that women have the passion of collecting all and every type of jewelry prevailing in the market. Sensing this passion or rather say obsession made Morris Gordon open the jewelry store naming Gordons Jewelry in 1916. First this store was opened in the partnership but after the end of World War 1 he took over the whole store and converted it into a family business. Seeing the super success of this store he opened a new store in Beaumont 1934 and in subsequent years he comprehensively spread the web of Gordon jewelry all over. From 1936 to 1950 he almost opened six stores in different states taking Gordon jewelry worldwide. And in no time he became the proud owner of nearly 300 stores making his wealth to $315,000,000 which brought him in the list of famous jewelry store owners.

In 1961 company went to become public and within 8 years they took over the Houston’s top rated company Star Engraving Company. This take over led to the net increase of $1 million in the sales and this was further increased to $10 millions in the span of 3 years. Gordon’s jewelry was very popular for its designs and crafting. Many people also said that they are the people who infuse life in to the dead jewelry and make it more expressible. Once tasting the success in jewelry they moved onto they graduated to next level and started producing watches and non-jewelry items. This made them pioneer of the jewelry and they conquered that height which was not even in the vicinity of many. Apart from designing and selling jewelry they also started giving management training to the new people so that new talent pops up in the market.

This step took them to the pinnacle height as at that time every single person studying in jewelry design wished to do training in Gordon’s office. This step also boosted the sales of their jewelry as new designs introduced by them simply took the jewelry market with the stride. And after so many years still Morris Gordon is remembered for its revolution he brought in the jewelry arena.

For more information on Gordons Jewelry or buy jewelry online visit www.1a-jewelry.com

Author is a online jewelry business expert.

: 12:21 pm: adminMiscellaneous

Now this is a tough one and practically depends on what situation you are in. There can be three scenarios one is when the guy is genuinely in need of some money and you are the only one who can lend it to him at this point in time.

Second is that the guy is simply in the habit of indulging himself and cannot keep a check on his expenses and ends up over stretching himself always. In such a case it is more likely than not that he is simply taking advantage of your kindness.
The third case is somewhere in between the guy is basically good but sometimes he gets into stuff that lead him to a situation where he needs more cash than he has and so every couple of months or so he has to come to you for some money.

And another thing which is important is whether you get repaid at all or not. If you get repaid then there is no cause for worry you are probably just helping him through some cash flow problems. However you must keep in mind that the amount that he asks for should not keep increasing over time which only signs at situation where suddenly he takes a lot of money and then is not in a position to repay it.

Another good way for girlfriends to judge how to deal with the situation is to get a grip on where the money is going and then act accordingly. If the money is going on indulgences then you should stop lending to your boyfriend immediately. These can be in any form and not necessarily what we see as vices like alcohol or gambling. For instance if your boyfriend has a penchant for expensive clothes which he cannot afford and still takes money from you to spend on them it’s a vice that he can and should live without and you should not pamper him in ways that are detriment to both of you.

If you have decided that it is a case of indulgence and unjustified spending you should take a strong stance against this and say “no”, no matter how uncomfortable it becomes.

It’s difficult for most of us to say no and it becomes especially difficult in situations such as these when two people are intimate and spend a lot of time together. But it’s important to say no because maybe you are heading for a potentially disastrous situation one you definitely do not want to enter and may be even deserve. Money problems are one of the worse that any couple can hope for and they may even lead to separation. But think over it if all a guy needs you for is money then its probably better to just snap out of it. However it is equally important to recognize that there are a lot of chances of miscommunication and its best to bring it all out in the open. You should take a stance depending on your situation which would either be no more lending at all or controlled lending and be ready before hand for some uncomfortable questions and situations that will arise when you are going to make this conversation. If you think through it you will be able to come out with reasons on why this is the best for both of you and how you think it needs to be tackled now itself and not later.

Relate all this to your boyfriend in a calm manner and hopefully he would understand but if he does not you have to take a tough decision and decide whether he still is worth it.

Author Billy Baker - Billy writes for and with DatingXLence which has even more helpful tips and pointers at Relationships & Online Dating, If this link is inactive, paste this one into your browser datingxlence.com or for more news, articles and tips see Romance Tips For Woman. If this link is inactive, paste this one into your browser datingxlence-resources.com

: 12:19 pm: adminHardware Stuff

A linear induction motor is made up of an inductor which is made of individual cores with a concentrated polyphase. Linear motors can be directly substituted for ball screw drives, hydraulic drives, pneumatic drives, or cam drives.

A linear induction motor is basically what is referred to by experts as a “rotating squirrel cage” induction motor. The difference is that the motor is opened out flat. Instead of producing rotary torque from a cylindrical machine it produces linear force from a flat machine. The shape and the way it produces motion is changed, however it is still the same as its cylindrical counterpart. There are no moving parts, however and most experts don’t like that. It does have a silent operation and reduced maintenance as well as a compact size, which appeals many engineers. There is also a universal agreement that it has an ease of control and installation. These are all important considerations when thinking about what type of device you want to create. The linear induction motor thrusts ratio varies depending mainly on the size and rating. Speeds of the linear induction motor vary from zero to many meters per second. Speed can be controlled. Stopping, starting and reversing are all easy. Linear induction motors are improving constantly and with improved control, lower life cycle cost, reduced maintenance and higher performance they are becoming the choice of the experts. Linear motors are simple to control and easy to use. They have a fast response and high acceleration. Their speed is not dependant on contact friction so it is easier to pick up speed quickly.

Stepper motors are a special kind of motor that moves in discrete steps. When one set of windings is energized the motor moves a step in one direction and when another set of windings is energized the motor moves a step in the other direction. The advantage of stepper motors that the position of the motor is “known”. Zero position can be determined, if the original position is known.

Stepping motors come in a wide range of angular resolution and the coarsest motors typically turn 90 degrees per step. High resolution permanent magnet motors are only able to handle about 18 degrees less than that. With the right controller stepper motors can be run in half-steps, which is amazing.

The main complaint about the stepper motor is that it usually draws more power than a standard DC motor and maneuvering is also difficult.

www.Intellidrives.com

Intellidrives

: 12:16 pm: adminMiscellaneous

Break ups are never easy. You are a bundle of jealous, hurt, angry, resentful emotions. Your mood can swing from depression to bitter anger. The only thing you seem to think about is what went wrong, can I get him/her back or I’ll show him/her. The main theme in your life is ‘How can I feel better right NOW?’ Here are some suggestions that I hope will help.

  1. Friends and Family. I know this may seem obvious but lean on your friends
    and family. Spend time doing things together, not just talking and thinking
    about the break up. If this isn’t enough, you may consider a support group or
    counseling.
  2. Resist the urge to beg. You want them back but not at any price. At the
    time it may seem the right thing to do but think about it. In the long run they
    will lose respect for you. This doesn’t mean don’t try to work things out. If
    there is a chance you can work things out, go for it. However, if your partner
    has made it clear that in their eyes, the relationship is over, begging will not
    help and may hurt the situation.
  3. Make a change in your life. Find a new way to spend your time. Take a
    class, join a gym, adopt a pet, or volunteer. Do anything that will make you
    feel good about yourself. Your ego is probably feeling bruised right now. Find a
    way to counteract that.
  4. Understand your mistakes but also realize that you are not a failure.
    Don’t beat yourself up. If you made mistakes, then yes, learn from them but
    dwelling on what might have been won’t help. It takes two to make a
    relationship, it also takes two to end one. You weren’t the only one who made
    mistakes. It may not seem useful to you now, but a lot of times the things you
    learned from this experience will make your next relationship stronger, as long
    as you make the necessary changes.
  5. Start Dating. You won’t feel like it at first, but don’t stay away from
    other people for an extended period of time. Going out with other people can
    help the healing process and boast your ego.
  6. Don’t fall prey to others. There will be people trying to sell you this
    or that, guaranteed to win back your partner. Don’t let people take advantage of
    you while you are vulnerable. If you do buy something, understand that while
    there is a chance it could help, there is also a chance that it won’t.
  7. Take up a hobby. Learn something new. There is probably something you’ve
    always wanted to try but never had the time. You have the time, do it.
  8. Don’t rush into another relationship. While starting to date can help you
    feel better, it’s not a good idea to rush right into another relationship. Take
    time to heal before making any commitments or someone will probably end up
    getting hurt.
  9. Avoid dwelling on it. I know it’s impossible not to think about it, but,
    if you find yourself doing so for an extended period of time, find a way to take
    your mind off of it. Call a friend; go to the gym, whatever comes to mind. If
    nothing seems to work, try this: Make a list of reasons why you are better off
    now. This could include I have time to do the things I want to do. I can date
    anyone I want to. I can find a partner who will appreciate me the way I am and
    stop wasting time on a doomed relationship. Think about the things they did that
    drove you crazy, because there are some. Don’t look back with rose colored
    glasses and only remember the good things. Don’t have the idea in your head that
    if only we were back together I would be happy. Wrong. Wouldn’t they have a lot
    to answer for if you did get back together? Leaving you was probably the biggest
    mistake they will ever make. Let them dwell on it, you move on!
  10. Build your ego. I’ve touched on this already but it is very important.
    Find ways to feel better about yourself. This could be anything from getting a
    haircut to buying some new clothes. You could take a class on self improvement.
    If nothing else, you should do this: Make a list of things that make you a great
    person. Don’t sit there and tell me you can’t think of anything. I don’t buy it.
    Try again. Are you kind? Patient? Intelligent? Cook like a pro? Can fix
    anything? There are things that make you great. WRITE them down and whenever you
    feel low, read your list and add to it. You are you and you are great so don’t
    let anyone ever make you feel that you aren’t.

©2005 Patricia Fason

EzineArticles Expert Author Patricia Fason

Patricia Fason is a writer and poet whose main focus is relationships. For more articles on relationships visit her website dedicated to romance, Sites O Web Romances You. There you will find articles, poetry, romance tips, romantic gifts and much more.

: 5:31 am: adminThe Technology Way

Today most Scientists & Adoption Agents are of the opinion that
parents should inform their adopted children as soon as possible
about their status. The issue should thereafter be discussed
more often at various points in time to give the child/children
a chance to grasp their special status and the opportunity to
ask questions. Only an early introduction to the subject will
give parents and children a chance to develop an open and
trusting relationship between each other.

There are two sides to the process of informing a child about
it’s adoptive status: First of all the information has to be
passed on to the child and secondly the child has to understand
the information it has been given.

It is more than likely that a 4 year old child can be made to
refer to itself as “adopted” and further tell that it has grown
in another woman’s womb before being adopted by it’s present
parents. This however does not go to say that the child has
understood what an adoption really means. More so it has to be
assumed that due to the child’s use of very specific vocabulary
related to the issue of adoption the parents are lured into the
false belief that their child fully understands the concept of
adoption. By doing so, the cognitive capability of a small child
is highly overestimated. It takes approximately 10 years for an
adopted child to fully grasp the information about its adoption
which they have been given at the age of 3 or 4. This knowledge
was the result of the scientific research by BRODZINSKY and his
colleagues during the “Rutgers Adoption Project” (1986). The
scientists examined 100 adopted children in comparison to 100
non-adopted children. There were 20 children in each age group:
4-5 years old, 6-7 years old, 8-9 years old, 10-11 years old and
12-13 years old. All adoptive children were adopted within the
first 2 ½ years of their life. Their understanding of the
adoption was evaluated on the basis of a 6 grade chart.

Although the 4-5 year old children had all been informed about
their adoption most of them did not have any understanding of
the meaning of an adoption (grade 0). At an average age of 5
years and 6 months most examined children either assumed that
all children in general were born to their biological parents or
that adoption and giving birth are the same (grade 1). At the
age of 7 years and 2 months children could distinguish between
adoption and birth. They viewed it as 2 different means of
becoming a part of a family. The relationship between the
adoptive parents and the child was described by the children to
be a permanent one. However they could not articulate a reason
for the permanence of this relationship other than voicing the
assumption that “The child is now owned by its adoptive parents”
(grade 2).

At an average age of 8 years and 8 months the children were not
so confident about the stability of the Parent-Child
Relationship anymore. They believed that their biological
parents would either claim them back one day or that their
adoptive parents could also decide to give them away at some
point in time (grade 3). At 10 years and 4 months of age the
children were confident in the lastingness of the relationship
between adoptive parents and child again. With regards to this
newly found confidence they even referred to professionals in a
position of authority such as Judges, Lawyers & Medical Doctors
(grade 4). It was not until the average age of 12 years and 5
months that the adopted children understood that an adoption on
a legal basis of specific laws incorporated the transfer of
parental rights and duties from the biological parents to the
adoptive parents (Grade 5).

The adopted children were aware of an Adoption Agency being
involved in their adoption at an average age of 8 years and 1
month but did not know the actual task of the Agency.
Approximately 10 months later they understood that this
organisation plays a vital role in the process. In most cases
the first assumption was that the Agency’s purpose was to cater
to the wishes of the future adoptive parents. Once at an average
age of 11 years and 11 months the adoptive children understood
that the Agency first and foremost acts on behalf and in the
interest of the well being of the children put up for adoption,
therefore screening the potential adoptive parents.

Brodzinsky and his colleagues research clearly shows that the
understanding of an adoptive child with reference to its
adoption develops in predictable phases. In the beginning the
knowledge is still very general and slightly diffuse but becomes
more sophisticated with time. This knowledge is also associated
with a growing awareness of the connection with social
organisations and the relating laws.

The research indicates how difficult it must be for a child
under the age of 13 or 14 to process the fact of having a dual
set of parents. Younger children don’t grasp this concept at
all, slightly older children find it hard to fit the
characteristics of adoptive parents into their idea of a family
concept. Eight and nine year olds know that parents and children
are blood related. Adoptive children of this particular age
group therefore question which family they are really part of -
their biological parents or their adoptive parents. Bearing in
mind that children of this age group (8-9 year olds) have not
yet understood the concept of adoption including all its
implications it is not surprising that they feel insecure of
their position within the adoptive family and voice a lot of
questions regarding their heritage. During a further examination
of 156 adopted children aged 6-11 years old Brodzinsky and his
colleagues (1986) found out that a child’s comprehension of its
adoption is neither influenced by structure of the adoptive
family (only child, biological siblings, adopted siblings),
their social status, the previous history of the child nor its
age or condition of health at the time of adoption. This means
that the comprehension develops through an intra psychological
process by combining the newly received information with other
relevant knowledge of family structure, social institutions,
human motives, separation, loss, - etc. This Process is
therefore imbedded in the overall cognitive development of the
child.

The results of this research clearly show that parents and
adoption agents generally expect the adoptive children to
understand the process of an adoption too early. In return they
are surprised when primary school children ask a lot of
questions regarding their biological parents and their heritage,
the reasons for being put up for adoption as well as being
insecure in terms of their adoptive parents love and sometimes
show signs of sadness and depression. Parents and experts do not
understand these behavioural patterns and often wrongly judge it
as negative although it is quite normal, age appropriate and
probably inevitable. It is a sign that the children are trying
to achieve a better understanding of the adoption. In order to
do so they have to process the loss of their biological parents
and the resulting emotions (sadness) at this age. This is being
complicated by the lack of knowledge about their biological
parents.

Consequently it is vital that adoptive parents make themselves
aware of the fact that adopted children will comprehend the
adoption with all its implications not until they have entered
their second decade of life. They (adoptive parents ) can help
the child to achieve a positive and extensive comprehension of
the adoption by openly and honestly discussing the issue instead
of avoiding it. It is equally important that they are also aware
of the difference between adoptive families and biological
families further understanding the special status of their own
family. Primarily they should not overstrain the child and
confront it with unrealistic expectations but should give the
child the time it needs for the long lasting cognitive
development process which will conclude in a full comprehension
of the adoption.

: 3:54 am: adminThe Technology Way

“‘Page Not Found’ on this Server. Check the URL and try again. Or Refresh the page…”

This is the annoying error that we will come across every time we surf the web pages. Internet will be changing every minute and day. The web sites that were here are not found next day. The web pages that were here with ‘/page.html’ are changed to ‘/page1.html’ next day.

Webmasters update their sites and change the links and content. While they doing so most of them forget one important thing.

“What will happen if somebody bookmarked this page and try to visit next time?”

Simple…Those people will see these ‘404 Page Not Found Errors’.

Let me tell you some tips how to avoid all these tiny mistakes and get something from these error pages.

**Custom Error pages:**

Most of the hosting companies allow to create error pages as you like with your own Html and upload to your website. If you don’t upload your error pages the server displays default server error pages.

Utilise this oppurtunity. Create a page with any of the following:

Put links to other parts of your site. Links to main pages is enough to navigate back in to your site. 2. Direct links to your products.

Promote your Affiliate links

Offer something free from this page like free ebooks, free email course etc.

Your Ezine subscription

Discount on your product

If you are conducting some polls on your site you can keep that poll on these pages too.

Keep an email link on error pages and you can request your visitor to inform you about the error.

All these keeps your visitor some more time on your web site. Every link above will be a benefit for you.

**Watch Your Bandwidth:**

DON’T put too much Html or graphics on these error pages. By the time they will download your visitor might hit the back button or get out of the site.

Lot of graphics also increases your bandwidth usage. The web sites are continually attacked by viruses. If you have a good web logger and check it once in a while you will see some hundreds of page requests with ‘404 errors’. All these 404 errors drain your bandwidth. So keep an eye on size of error pages.

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